Men and Women

Why is it so hard for relationships? What is it that makes relationships seem like they are often times impossible?

I am sick of immature men that think they don't have to listen to their better halves! Why don't guys understand that a relationship is 50-50. I would let you have your say... I don't mind. But whenever I ask you how you are feeling you never respond. I don't want to be a taker in relationships I want to be a giver. However sometimes the messages get misunderstood to seem as if I'm "nit-picking". Fuck that. I do my best 24-7-365 to make my life run as smoothly as possible. I go to school, my families, take care of my boyfriend, do the laundry, wash the dishes, attened to our kittie, remember to take a shower, change my cloths, do my makeup, impress my boss, get to work on time, fucking go to work, wake up, manage to get in bed on time... do I really need to continue? We work our asses off as humans to make our lives a little easier in the long run. (Which some may theorize is totally pointless cause you start working at 16 and retire at 65... where's the rest of your life?) But it seems that no matter what you do, you are always over looked and under appreciated. Especially by your partner. Why do relationships loose their heat? Why do people become bored with one another? And how can you manage to keep a marriage hot and happening for the next 30 years? Maybe the leading cause of divorce is just boredom. Maybe we all need to take a step back and realize that we have something good on our hands. Just because the relationship has souered in the present, dosen't mean it can't get back to the passion. It just takes a little time and a whole lot of self assesment.

Here's hoping that all the currently fucked up relationships turn out decent.